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Unforgivable Oversight

Friday, November 30th, 2007, 11:53 am

2 days ago was my husband’s birthday. The dunce I am, I forgot to wish him a happy birthday. I hadn’t completely forgotten the day—I had ordered a gift that was supposed to arrive on his birthday but hasn’t arrived yet. (I will be yelling at that company sometime today since I paid for expedited shipping.) 

I could make 100s of excuses. I’ve been very busy at work since my boss is out on maternity leave and our assistant really can only give us 2 hours of her time a day. The studio has been increasing what we do during the October-December months, putting more demands on my time and thoughts. A friend’s mother died. Thanksgiving was early this year, throwing my internal calendar off-whack. (Usually his birthday is the same week as T-day.) 

But there really isn’t a good excuse for forgetting your spouse’s birthday. So, I apologized, made no excuses, and I will probably have to be very extra nice to him this weekend. I’ll probably even exempt him from the dance on Sunday night that he really doesn’t want to attend. 

What a complete dunce!

Tags: contrition, marriage

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jayfurr

That would, oddly, never happen in our house. Carole's birthday is such a huge mega-event that there's NO WAY I could possibly overlook it, and in any case, it comes two weeks after mine and three weeks after our wedding anniversary. (When I say "mega-event" I'm referring to the mound of presents I am expected to come up with, the cake(s), the special dinner out, and so forth. Carole will actually begin pondering where she'd like to go for her special dinner out weeks in advance.) And as for my birthday, Carole's heard the cool story of how my entire family completely forgot my seventeenth birthday until I ever-so-gently nudged them about it a month after the fact, and consequently she knows to at least get me a card.

jayfurr 12/4/2007 8:24am