Posted By: spbynikkih on

Monday, April 28th, 2008, 1:26 pm

Last night I attended a "women" only sex talk that our pastors wife was doing.  I attended because, while my own sex life is great, I was curious to see what she had to say.  I have been doing "romance parties" (Slumber Parties) for over 2 yrs.  While many church goers know what I do (heck I make several deliveries at church each week) there are always the "You're going to heck quot; people too.  I've also come across many women here in the Bible Belt that feel sex is only for the man.  She is not to enjoy any of it.  

The pastor's wife went into several scriptures talking about how everything in the marriage bed is sacred (minus homosexuality, adultry, etc).  Some of the women were shocked as she continued to tell them to enjoy their husbands...anything goes! 

She went on to say that God created sex.  He isnt up there covering his ears like a little school boy.  One of his first conversations with Adam was a sex talk..."Be fruitful and multiply".  He gave us a clitoris for one reason....PLEASURE!!!!  That is the only purpose of the clitoris.  God made it..enjoy the pleasure it brings you!

She made the point that churches should be telling their congregation to enjoy sex,not act like it is a "dirty little secret" that married couples do.  We all know if you arent giving it to him, there is someone else out there that will.  You should want to crave him, ravish him...that is what God intended. 

If couples took the time to fully enjoy the gift of sex with their partner, then just think of how relationships would grow.  Trust, the feeling of being wanted and loved.  There would not be the need to go outside of the marriage.

I've had 7 women tell me that coming to my presentations have opened their eyes when they see the preachers wife or little Miss Suzy that teaches Sunday school buying creams and lotions for the bedroom!  Seven women on the verge of divorcing their husbands because they did not want to meet their husbands sexual needs in fear it would offend the Lord.  They should never hold back sex from him or vise versa.  Because we all know that if you aren't giving him the attention, some one else will.

God created sex!  Tonight DEVOUR your husband and ENJOY him!  God wants you to!!!!!!  See how your relationship changes with your husband.  Watch your relationship flourish with trust and a new kindled love!

Women have to know that it is ok!  Enjoy it!

There's lots of fun ways to incorporate sex into your lifestyle! 

http://www.slumberpartiesbynikkih.com/

Tags: sex, marriage, relationship, bible, intimacy

Posted By: mrsalbrecht on

Tuesday, January 15th, 2008, 8:54 am

While shaking my fist at my oven tonight (I need to recalibrate the temperature - it runs, I’m guessing, about 50 degrees too hot) for burning my homemade onion & rye bread, I was listening to audio from one of Pastor Strawbridge’s archived sermons from March of last year entitled, “The Spiritual Discipline of Prayer”.

At the end of the sermon, Strawbridge read a quote from C.S. Lewis’ Screwtape Letters that stuck with me enough to replay the audio and jot it down. The quote encourages Christians to pray even when we feel far from God or don’t feel like praying.

As you read this excerpt, bear in mind that it is written from the point of view of the devil teaching another devil how to tempt a new Christian. When the devil refers to “our cause”, it is the cause of getting Christians to fall away from the Lord. The “Enemy” is, in this context, referring to God.

Now it may surprise you to learn that in His efforts to get permanent possession of a soul, He relies on the troughs even more than on the peaks; some of His special favorites have gone through longer and deeper troughs than anyone else. The reason is this. To us a human is primarily food; our aim is the absorption of its will into ours, the increase of our own area of selfhood at its expense. But the obedience which the Enemy demands of men is quite a different thing.

Hence the prayers offered in the state of dryness are those which please Him best. We can drag our patients along by continual tempting, because we design them only for the table, and the more their will is interfered with the better.

Our cause is never more in danger than when a human, no longer desiring, but still intending, to do our Enemy’s will, looks round upon a universe from which every trace of Him seems to have vanished, and asks why he has been forsaken, and still obeys.

*Trough : 2 a: A conduit, drain, or channel for water; especially : a gutter along the eaves of a building b: a long and narrow or shallow channel or depression (as between waves or hills); especially : a long but shallow depression in the bed of the sea — compare trench

Tags: god, devil, prayer, religion, cs lewis